7 Things Guys Do That Girls Like
7. Fridge Optimization
Let’s start simple.
At some point, you’re going to have a girl over to your place, and when she’s there, you’re gonna want to make her feel comfortable. You’ll offer her something to drink, only to realize that unless she wants pickle juice or ketchup… You’ve got nothing to give her.
It’s time to move past the dorm-room approach to grocery shopping and stock your fridge like a grown up. You don’t have to go crazy, but always having a few essentials on deck shows her that you can take care of yourself and since you have food at home, you’ll automatically start saving money and eating healthier.
Not bad right? What’s good for you is also one of the easiest-to-accomplish things guys do that girls like.
6. Try… Just A Little
Men have a… complicated relationship with their appearance. Most guys want to look good, but don’t want to look like they care too much.
Well, we’re gonna lay it all out there: there’s nothing wrong with caring about your look, and there’s no shame in putting some effort into it!
Making sure you smell nice and look good shows self respect and lets you express your personality. And one of the most important aspects of your appearance is your crumb catcher, your soup strainer, your man makeup… your beard.
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If you’ve been with Mantelligence for a while you know how important it is to have confidence.
So what’d you do?
You went out and picked ya up a batch-a-the-old confidence. You just went and you picked it right up. Then you got some more, and some more, and now…
You’ve got confidence-levels so sky high, so untamed… that you’re teetering on the brink of spilling into complete arrogance.
It’s a real risk. Look, confidence is and will always be cool. But all arrogance does, is make you seem desperate for confidence.
So how do you balance out this little pickle you got yourself in?
First, don’t be the nice guy… And second, you’ve got to share the confidence with others. Specifically, share it with your girl. Hand her the keys from time to time and let her feel the confidence that you feel.
Remember… her interests, worries, victories, and struggles are just as important as yours. And by showing real interest in her life and shining the spotlight on her… You show her you’re confident enough to realize the world doesn’t revolve around you, which is one of the biggest things guys do that girls like.
4. Know Your Strengths… And Weaknesses
The key to success, in life and in romance, is knowing yourself. That means finding your strengths and using them, but it also means recognizing your weaknesses and dealing with them.
So, what does that look like?
Let’s say your girl is better at parallel parking than you (yes, it happens). You could cling to your pride and insist on driving downtown, spend 15 minutes trying to park, and arrive at the restaurant irritated and embarrassed. Or, you could be big enough to let her take the wheel and get on with having a great night.
There’s no greater turn-on for women than watching a man do what he does best, but there’s no greater turn-off than a guy insisting he’s good at something he’s not.
3. Give Character Compliments
Look, telling a girl she’s pretty/beautiful/hot/sexy doesn’t show a ton of originality, and doesn’t really set you apart from any other guy off the street.
I mean, OK, a girl wants to hear she’s pretty, but you’ve got to keep in mind, just about every guy who ever flirted with her told her she looked good within the first five minutes.
So what do you do?
Use this one-two punch to get girls to chase you: First of all, assume a girl thinks you think she’s pretty. Let it remain unspoken. If she doesn’t know, she’ll figure it out.
Second, if you’re going to rely on direct compliments, do it with what’s called character compliments.
Tell her how much you appreciate her optimism, how you admire her compassion, or how you’re inspired by her intelligence. Things like that. Character compliments show her you think of her as more than a pretty face and are much more meaningful, probably genuine, and memorable form of flattery.
2. Get Real
If you’ve ever been in a relationship longer than a week… You know that the beginning stages can be a little awkward. Not in a bad way, but in a way that holds things back while you and your new girl figure each other out.
From the first date to even the first few months, most of our time is spent peeling back the layers of the other person. Because the truth is, most people are not as put-together, clean, or outgoing, as they say they are in the beginning.
It’s sort of an unspoken rule: Relationships are a process of walking back from the expectations you set upfront.
It’s natural! And we think, the sooner you can rip off the bandaid and get real, the sooner she’ll realize that you’re not like the other guys.
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You know in the movies when the loveable goofball with no plans or ambition ends up with an amazing girl? It turns out… that only works in Hollywood.
Real women want a guy who thinks ahead and who thinks things through. She wants to see that you’re working on yourself and taking steps to achieve your goals. That doesn’t mean you can’t occasionally spend a weekend on the couch, but a man who knows what he wants and goes out and gets it beats a couch potato ten times out of ten.
So strategize about your future and she’ll be daydreaming about being a part of it.
Oh and PS: Doing this is also one of the easiest ways to make ANY girl fall in love with you.